People

There are three kind of people in world. Best friends are first of their kind, Family are of second kind and rest of the world come in the last kind.

I was facing problems at professional level, in spite of being a diligent employee of a reputed organization there was lots more to learn. Nobody can be perfect but very few people accept this statement practically. I will start with rest of the world, My senior was one among that. He explained, he blamed, he harassed, he warned but at the end he said that it was a constructive feedback. I accepted all as i really had respect for that being but with due respect i argued for the issues which were irrelevant. You never know when something you are doing in favor may turn totally against you. I realized that i was overworking and i should not have done that. In corporate, the more you get attached to your work the more you get hurt, there was no need to be emotionally attached with the things i was delegated for, was a lesson learnt.

And somewhere in-between, I "somewhat" grew up.

"I want to be a doctor. I will marry someone who will fight with gangsters to save me. I will never leave my parents. When i will grow up and will get married, my husband will come to my house to stay with me. I will always be the class topper. I love to dress like a boy. School is so boring. When will i switch to a pen from pencil? Will i be selected for the dance competition? " Age-Nine

"I hope my parents won't get to know about the test in which i scored less. How will i introduce my dad to maths teacher in parents teacher meeting. Being a doctor is probably not a good idea. I think that he have a crush on me. Why the hell does my class teacher always stand me up to read the news in assembly. Why can't school canteen have some delicious food. Why the hell is mom so irritating. Why can't i hang around with friends. Why can't i wear short skirts rather than boring jeans, all the time. I love my best friend. Long nails look good. I wish i could go to school with untied hair. Extra classes, wow !! i will get to wear casuals. Finally, he bought me a scooty. Awww' my dad is the best."Age-Thirteen.

Friends For Life

They always do this. Cancellation of plans at last moments, useless arguments and delayed decisions. I threw the marker i was playing with and left the classroom. I could never understand when my friends turned so annoying. we knew each other from year 2008. Just after i left school. When i met them first, i never knew we will share this kind of bonding. From lectures to bunks, from hang-outs to night-outs, from juices to vodka, from Delhi to Chandigarh...we did it all. They were the best part of my life through out college. The beautiful destiny threw us in the same place again for Post graduation or say we were too dependent on each other that we couldn't even choose our paths independently. We were happy and i think that was enough. we hardly fought except the day i m writing about.