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She was crying when i picked up her call. Yes we hardly talk now. Family, job and difference in priorities lead us here. she was my best friend but now i think i am hardly bothered about her life. She was having a hard time in corporate and she called me for some guidance. "Let it go dear if it is not serving you anymore" I stated in short. she was confused. thats how we are, we get attached to things and then it becomes hard for us to leave them and move on. let it be our personal relationships or career. 

I have a very good friend who was stucked there in memories of his ex girl friend for long. finally he moved on but still he says that he will go for an arrange marriage as he have already concluded that love is not his cup of tea. That is how our generation is..We reach to the conclusions very soon. We keep ourselves so much stressed up. we expect too much out of ourselves and then when we fail, we get hurt.

I learned from my three years old relationship to don't take anything for granted. he was perfect when i started dating him but one day he suddenly left, saying he wanna move on. Infact he got a better opportunity. he found some one better to spend time with. Yes he was good at heart as he didn't hide his feelings, let it be a proposal or a break up..he was true to me and himself. I got hurt but i realized that its fine to let people go if they want and never keep a hope for them to come back.Time heals almost every thing.Expectations hurt real bad. When i was small i couldn't wait to grow up but here we are..grown up idiots.

I could hardly recall that i like writing till someone came in and made me realize. Its fine to do not have all you want. It's fine if you can't shop endlessly. Its fine if you have been dumped. Its fine if you are still dependent on your parents. its fine if you scored less in exams. its fine if you didn't hit the appraisal this year. But. it's not fine to leave small smiles in sake of big achievements. There is no fun if you get promoted on the day of your break up. No fun in shopping if your head is aching so its balance which is mandatory.

Increasing the level of acceptance and decreasing the level of expectations may help. Doing something everyday which satisfies your soul, may be singing or cooking or reading or roaming, may help too. Giving a less damn to what people think can solve 90 percent of problems.Other 10 percent will get solved if we start chasing the path to our happiness. We are here to be happy and make others happy leave everything else on almighty, its fine to do not have all the answers.

 Live to the fullest. Have faith. Fall in love. Have fun. Get hurt and try again. That is how life is..it make us learn in it's own way.